Boring Life

Seems like everybody is having a happy life except me. No activities for me after work, no friends to ask me out during weekends (not that I didn't ask but always not free). It's not the same anymore since we graduated. I think another reason is also because, all of them are looking for their 'xing fu' or already found their 'xing fu'. And in order to sustain their 'xing fu', they will prefer to go out with their 'ai ren' rather than their good 'ole' friends because you don't need to pay for your food, you don't need to pay for your shoppping. Let me explain furthur:

FRIEND (STILL LOOKING FOR XING FU) ---------------------> No 1 Spot: YOU!

FRIEND (FOUND XING FU) ---------------------------------> No 1 Spot: BF
No 2 Spot: YOU! (Oh no!)

Note: Before you continue reading any furthur, let me address that I'm not trying to point at anyone with my analysis. It was just my side of view.

This real-life example will make the above evidence more concrete:
Venue: Clementi Hawker Centre
People: Me, Phoebe, Phoebe's bf, Huchian, Meiling

Huichian was listening very seriously on the phone. After she hunged up, we asked her what was the matter. She told us one of her friends was seriously heart-broken when her friend lied to her. Both PB and Moi agreed that it's really not a big blow to them if their friends lied to them. To furthur conclude, PB said that if it was her bf who lied to her, she will then be heart-broken. Huichian fought back by saying that because her friend treasure this friendship.

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From the above case, I feel that friends have become just a necessity rather than a need. I'm not here to criticize anyone or hurt anyone but I just want to write out what I feel about how people think and analyse things around them. I think maybe this is how the world is like and how humans behave, we cannot blame anyone.